Sticks and Stones Look up sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me in Wiktionary, the free dictionary. "Sticks and Stones" is an English-language children's rhyme. The rhyme is used as a defense against name-calling and verbal bullying, intended to increase resiliency, avoid physical retaliation, and/or to remain calm and indifferent. The full rhyme is usually a variant of:
The first three words of the rhyme are an example of an irreversible binomial. With the rise of woke sensibilities, response to cyberbullying, and enactment of hate speech laws, the relevance of the adage's message is losing popularity for teachers and parents to pass on to modern children. Earliest appearancesAlexander William Kinglake in his Eothen (written 1830, published in London, John Ollivier, 1844) used "golden sticks and stones". An article by F.R. Horner in Liverpool's Northern Times on July 23, 1857, included the phrase (as quoted text):
An article in The Coleraine Chronicle and North of Ireland Advertiser on January 18, 1862 included the phrase (also as quoted text):
It appeared in The Christian Recorder, a publication of the African Methodist Episcopal Church, on March 22, 1862, where it was presented as an "old adage" in this form:
In a speech given by E.H. Heywood in Boston, Massachusetts, on November 16, 1862, published in The Liberator on January 2, 1863, the speaker quotes a "little Irish girl" who "dissolved the quarrel" of a group of children who were about to come to blows by saying:
An article in The Tiverton Gazette and East Devon Herald on March 13, 1866, references "the old school rhyme":
The phrase also appeared in 1872, where it is presented as advice in Tappy's Chicks: and Other Links Between Nature and Human Nature, by Mrs. George Cupples.[3] The version used in that work runs:
In popular music"Sticks and Stones" has been used as the title for many albums and songs, and the rhyme's lyrics have also appeared in many songs, either in its usual form or with altered lyrics. A version was featured in the Who's 1981 song, "The Quiet One", in which the vocals were performed by bassist John Entwistle, where he mentioned this term from another source he picked up and sang this term twice where he changed "your" from the first set to "my" in the second set.
Another version was featured in the Divine Comedy's 2004 song "Sticks and Stones" from the album Absent Friends, in which the vocals were performed by Neil Hannon.
A version was featured in American rapper and singer Juice WRLD's song "Hurt Me" from the album Goodbye & Good Riddance.
A version was featured in American singer-songwriter Madonna's song "Like It or Not" from the album Confessions on a Dance Floor.
A version was featured in Pete Doherty's rock band Babyshambles's song "Sticks and Stones" from the album Down in Albion.
A version was featured in the Pierces's song "Sticks and Stones" from their 2007 album Thirteen Tales of Love and Revenge.
Tom Waits uses the quote in his song "On The Nickel"
Joyner Lucas used the same phrase of words as a song title on his recent album "Not Now I'm Busy" Other songs which have used or interpolated the rhyme include "Titanium" by David Guetta, "S&M" by Rihanna, "Fireball" by Pitbull, "Part of Me" by Katy Perry, "You Need to Calm Down" by Taylor Swift, Pocketful of Sunshine by Natasha Bedingfield, and "What About Us" by Pink.[4] Trivia
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