Mary Aldis Draper (April 4, 1719 – November 20, 1810) is known for the help she gave members of the Continental Army during the American Revolution.
Personal life
Mary Aldis, born April 4, 1719 in Dedham, Massachusetts,[1][a] was the daughter of Nathan Aldis and Mary Chickering.[3] She married Abel Allen on March 26, 1739 in Boston, becoming Mary Allen,[2][4] and then later widow Allen.[5] On November 26, 1743, Mary Allen married Moses Draper (1721–1775),[6][7] becoming Mary Draper. The Drapers lived on a successful farm and dairy,[8] which was on the border of Dedham and Roxbury. The house is in Roxbury, but she worshipped and frequented Dedham.[9][b] Moses died on January 21, 1775.[4]
Draper had one daughter and five sons.[5] At the time of the war, she had grown children, including Moses who was 31, and a son age 13. Moses, her eldest son who was a husband and a father, fought in the war.[11] Moses assembled with other men at Roxbury Neck. He was a second lieutenant of the first company of the Roxbury minute men, led by Captain Moses Whiting.[11][5] In addition to her oldest and youngest sons,[11][c] she had a daughter, Kate. One of her sons, David,[1][13] married Rebecca Healy at some point.[1]
Draper planned how she would feed men passing by their farm to the battle. Draper, her daughter Kate, and a servant named Molly prepared food from their granaries and dairy. The women continually kneaded and baked brown bread that day, night, and the next day.[13] When she ran out of goods for cooking, her neighbors helped out.[15]
The Draper farm was alongside the Old Post Road between Providence, Rhode Island and Boston.[16] Answering the Lexington Alarm, men from Connecticut and Rhode Island passed by her house on their way to the battlefields in Massachusetts.[11] On the road, she set up a long station with bread, cheese, and apple cider. Aided by John, a disabled veteran of the French wars and a family member, and two boys, food was handed out to the hundreds of men marching to war.[17][18] They served food for the men who passed her farm.[19] When needed, she provided food for soldiers during the war, but the need was not as great or frequent as the initial days of the war.[20]
General George Washington asked citizens to deliver pewter or lead to headquarters to create ammunition for the ongoing Siege of Boston (April 19, 1775 – March 17, 1776).[11] Draper used bullet molds to create ammunition from melted pewter from her large collection of dishes, platters, and pans.[19][21]
With the help of her daughter and a maid, she spun wool from her flocks of sheep and wove it into fabric[19][22] to make coats and blankets and sheets were made into shirts for the soldiers.[11][22] As Draper had throughout her life, if someone was in need of housing, she took them in.[15] She also provided medical care during the war.[1]
Death and legacy
Mary Draper died in Dedham, Massachusetts on November 20, 1810.[1] She is buried next to 17th-century settlers James Draper and his wife Miriam at the small burial ground in West Roxbury.[23]
A chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution in West Roxbury, Massachusetts was named after her in 1896. The wife of her descendant, Amos G. Draper, was a member of the chapter.[19] Its motto is, "Our country, to be cherished in all our hearts, to be defended by all our hands.[23]
^The large house was likely built in 1653 and was razed by a fire, along with outbuildings, in 1870.[10]
^Logan states that Draper helped her husband get ready for the war ("She exhorted her husband to lose no time in hastening to the scene of the action"),[12] but he died January 25, 1775.[4] Logan also said that she helped her sixteen-year-old son get ready to go fight with other patriots in the war,[12] but according to the Dedham Historical Society her youngest son was age 13.[9]
References
^ abcdef"Mary Draper, ancestor of Clarence Harrison Mowry, apply 1909", Sons of the American Revolution Membership Applications, 1889-1970, Louisville, Kentucky: National Society of the Sons of the American Revolution – via ancestry.com
^ ab"Mary Addis Allen Draper (1719–1810), husband Moses Draper", Lineage Book of the Charter Members of the DAR for North America, Family Histories, 1500-2000, vol. 073, Provo Utah: ancestry.com, 2016
^"Moses Draper (1721–1775), wife Mary Addis Draper", Lineage Book of the Charter Members of the DAR for North America, Family Histories, 1500-2000, vol. 073, Provo Utah: ancestry.com, 2016
^Dodd, Jordan; Liahona Research (2005), "Mary Allen married Moses Draper, November 26, 1743, Boston", Massachusetts, Marriages, 1633-1850, Salt Lake City, Utah: Family History Library – via ancestry.com