Hayden played college soccer at Indiana University. After redshirting his freshman season, Hayden began to see regular time with the Hoosiers in 2003. He helped Indiana win back-to-back NCAA titles in 2003 and 2004 as well as Big Ten Conference Tournament titles in 2003 and 2006. Hayden was named second team All-Big Ten in 2004 and first team All-Big Ten in 2006.[3][1] He also made the NCAA College Cup All-Tournament Team during 2004.[4]
While at Indiana, Hayden spent the collegiate off-season with several teams in the USL Premier Development League (PDL; now known as USL League Two). In 2002, he played with the West Michigan Edge. In 2004, he spent the season with the Indiana Blast and in 2005 with the Chicago Fire Premier. Hayden signed with the Fort Wayne Fever for the 2006 season.[5]
On July 1, 2009, Hayden made his first appearance of the 2009 season for Houston against the Austin Aztex in a 2–0 in the Open Cup.[10] Hayden played in subsequent cup games for the Dynamo against the Charleston Battery, a 4–0 win in which Hayden recorded 2 assists, and Seattle Sounders FC, a 2–1 loss.[11][12] He also made 3 appearances in the Champions League group stage.[8] He once again did not appear in a MLS match.
ON November 25, 2009, Hayden was waived by Houston.[13][14]
During his playing career, Hayden served as director for Mockingbird Valley SC and Chicago Fire Juniors: Kentucky.[1][4][17][16] In 2012, Hayden was hired as the assistant coach for the University of Louisville men's soccer program.[17] During the 2012 season, the Cardinals won the Big East Conference regular season title and advanced to the NCAA Tournament Elite Eight.[4]
Hayden left Louisville to become an assistant at Lipscomb University in 2013.[18] While at Lipscomb Hayden helped the Bisons to an Atlantic Sun Conference regular season title in 2014. The Bison were 21–13–4 overall during his two years in Nashville.[19]
On April 10, 2015, Hayden was hired by Xavier University as their associate head coach for the Musketeers men's soccer program.[20] During his one season with Xavier, the Musketeers had a 12–6–1 record.
In 2016 Hayden returned to the University of Louisville as an assistant coach. During his 3 seasons as the assistant, Louisville reached 3 NCAA Tournaments and the 2018 ACC Men's Soccer Tournament.[19]
On December 27, 2018, Louisville hired Hayden as the head coach for the men's soccer program, the 5th in program history.[1][19]
National champion
Postseason invitational champion
Conference regular season champion
Conference regular season and conference tournament champion
Division regular season champion
Division regular season and conference tournament champion
Conference tournament champion