Withers is also notable for the sexually explicit letters he wrote in 1826 to a college friend, future South Carolina governor James Henry Hammond, with whom Withers had a homosexual relationship. The letters, which are housed among the Hammond Papers at the South Carolina Library, were first published by researcher Martin Duberman in 1981, and are notable for being rare evidence of same-sex relationships in the antebellum United States.[4][5]
Withers married a Miss Boykin (sister-in-law of Stephen Decatur Miller, governor of South Carolina),[1] with whom he had several children.[6] Withers died at Camden in Kershaw County, South Carolina,[7] and was interred at the Quaker Cemetery in the same city.
References
^ abPerry, Ex-Governor B. F. (June 27, 1872). "Sketch of Hon. T. J. Withers". Yorkville Enquirer. York, South Carolina. p. 1. Retrieved May 11, 2019.
^"Elections by the legislature". Edgefield Advertiser. Edgefield, South Carolina. December 16, 1846. p. 2. Retrieved May 11, 2019.