The Girls from Ames: A Story of Women and a Forty-year Friendship is a 2009 book by Jeffrey Zaslow, about a group of women from Ames, Iowa and their lifelong friendships.
In the book, Zaslow chronicled eleven childhood friends who formed a special bond growing up in Ames. After college, they moved to eight different states, yet managed to maintain an enduring friendship that would carry them through college and careers, marriage and motherhood, dating and divorce, a child's illness and the mysterious death of one member of their group.
Those bonds are just not there... don't get me wrong. I talk to my wife, and that's it. I play poker every Thursday night with the guys, and we can go six hours and not one person will say a thing. And 80 percent of the conversation that does occur is about the cards.[6]
Jeffrey Zaslow
(commenting on the difference between men and women, after writing The Girls from Ames)