Roland Tay

Roland Tay
郑海船
Tay in 2014
Born
Tay Hai Choon

1947 (age 76–77)
Singapore
OccupationUndertaker
Years active1970 - Present
Children4
Websitedirectfuneral.wordpress.com, directfuneral.com.sg

Roland Tay (Chinese: 郑海船; pinyin: Zhèng Hǎichuán; born 1947) is an undertaker in Singapore. He is known for helping the poor and families of murder victims by providing pro-bono funeral arrangements.[1] Memorial services conducted by Tay include Huang Na, Liu Hong Mei, and Ah Meng, a Singapore tourism icon.

Early life

Born in 1947 as the fourth of 10 children to a hawker in a coffee shop along Lavender Street,[2] Tay began his working life as a coffee boy at his family's coffee shop. He helped the family's coffee shop business by serving coffee and tea to customers in Singapore Casket and learned about the funeral trade.[3]

When his parents died in 1973 from stomach cancer, 6 months apart from each another, Tay inherited the coffee shop before renting it out to start a transport business for students and factory workers. But it wasn't until in 1984 when he converted the coffee shop into Casket Palace, which was subsequently bought over by Singapore Casket.[4]

Career

In the subsequent years, Tay started several funeral companies. Following the now defunct Casket Palace, he founded Casket Fairprice[5] in 1993 which was subsequently managed by his two children from his first marriage.[6] He later founded Tong Aik Undertaker, Hindu Casket and Direct Funeral Services.

Tong Aik Undertaker is in charge of operating the Singapore Police Force's police hearse, and also has operated as Direct Funeral Services[7] since 2000.

In 2004, Tay with Direct Funeral Services conducted the pro-bono funeral of Huang Na, an eight-year-old girl who was murdered brutally in Pasir Panjang, Singapore.[8] This was followed by another pro-bono funeral in 2005 of 22-year-old Chinese national Liu Hong Mei, who was murdered and chopped into seven parts before being dumped in the Kallang River.[9] The process of sewing the body parts back together took Roland Tay and his embalmers 7 hours.[10] He also oversaw the funeral of Li Hong Yan, a 24-year-old village girl from Heilongjiang who drowned at Sentosa.[11]

Tay reportedly collected around three hundred identity cards of deceased persons whom were without family, and for whom he conducted pro bono funeral services.[4][12]

One of Tay's more memorable cases is the pro bono funeral he provided for the primate tourism icon Ah Meng of Singapore.[13]

In 2013, Tay brought his daughter Jenny Tay into the business, who subsequently helped him rebrand the undertaking firm as a managing director[14] after quitting her job at a marketing firm. Her husband Darren Cheng also closed down his counselling business and joined her in the company as an executive director. [15]

Personal life

Tay married his first wife in his early 20s and together they had a son and a daughter who both manage Casket Fairprice. At some point, the marriage ended with a divorce. His second marriage, which also ended with a divorce in 2001, bore him another 2 daughters, including Jenny Tay who now manages Direct Funeral Services.

Later, Tay married his third wife Sally Ho. However, both Tay and Ho filed and finalized their divorce in June 2013 before being embroiled into a court battle over their properties. According to the court papers, the cumulated properties were estimated to be a total of about $20 million.[16] In 2019, the court ruled that Tay receive 60% of the matrimonial assets while Ho received 40%. The verdict also saw Ho being required to hand over her interests in the Direct Funeral business to Tay, hence effectively ending her membership with the company.[17] Ho eventually moved on to set up her own funeral company, Dignity Funeral, together with her son from her first marriage, Jeffery Tay.[18]

Notable pro bono cases

Date Case Details
9 Nov 2004 Huang Na 8 year old girl brutally murdered by Took Leng How, who was executed in 2006.
12 July 2005 Liu Hong Mei Kallang Body Parts Murder victim. Her boyfriend Leong Siew Chor was found guilty of killing her and executed in 2007.[1]
31 Oct 2005 Maung Saw Oo Myanmar national who hanged himself when faced with deportation[19]
3 Dec 2005 Nguyen Tuong Van Vietnamese-Australian youth executed for drug trafficking
27 Mar 2006 Pham Thi Truc Linc Vietnamese hostess who died climbing out of Toa Payoh Flat[20]
Oct 2006 Tan Jee Suan Man who ran into MRT[21]
27 May 2007 Yuan Fu Di Chinese national who died from a hit-and-run[21]
26 Oct 2007 Pan Hui 15-year-old girl killed by her stepfather (who spent ten years in jail for manslaughter) in 2007.[22]
16 November 2007 Siu Chun Tao Construction worker who fell to his death[23]
10 February 2008 Ah Meng Death of Singapore tourism mascot, Ah Meng[13]
18 September 2008 Yang Jie A 36-year-old peidu mama and one of the three deceased victims of the Yishun murders case. Her daughter, then 15 years old, survived the murders. The killer, Wang Zhijian, was sentenced to death in 2012 for the murder of Yang Jie and the other two victims.[24][25]
1 July 2009 Huang Rui Jing Unemployed man had no money to mourn for sister[26]
24 March 2010 Li Hong Yan Karaoke hostess from China drowned at Sentosa[27]
13 May 2011 Alamin Bangladeshi worker who died while trapped in a container[28]
1 Feb 2015 Ken Ong Murdered his wife Karen Koh before turning the same knife on himself at their Yuan Ching Road home[29]
22 March 2016 Zhang Huaxiang A Chinese nurse strangled to death by her boyfriend Boh Soon Ho. Boh was arrested and sentenced to life imprisonment.[30][31]
28 January 2017 Choong Pei Shan and her daughter Teo Zi Ning Victims of the 2017 Woodlands double murders. Choong's husband Teo Ghim Heng was sentenced to death for murdering both of them, as well as killing his unborn son.[32][33]

References

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  2. ^ Lim, Wen Jian (25 April 2011). "Remember The Date". The Straits Times.
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  8. ^ Nadarajan, Ben (9 November 2005). "Thousands Bid tearful farewell to Huang Na". Singapore Press Holdings. The Straits Times.
  9. ^ "Kallang body parts murder". Archived from the original on 27 December 2014. Retrieved 27 December 2014.
  10. ^ T., Sua (12 July 2005). "Final Send Off". Singapore Press Holdings. NewspaperSG.
  11. ^ "The naked body & story behind Adrian Chua's Sentosa Cove pool in S'pore". 23 Jul 2010. Archived from the original on 24 February 2016. Retrieved 17 February 2016.
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  13. ^ a b Kong, Simin (10 February 2008). "4000 people give Ah Meng a final farewell". Singapore Press Holdings. Xinmin Daily News 新明日报.
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  23. ^ Tan, Kaisong (16 November 2007). "Bloodied Clothes were changed, His death was treated as a car accident". Singapore Press Holdings. Lian He Wan Bao 联合晚报.
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  25. ^ "Guilty As Charged: Man murders lover, her daughter and flatmate after quarrel over money for crab". The Straits Times. 18 May 2016. Retrieved 25 April 2021.
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  27. ^ "Sentosa Cove drowning ruled an accident". my paper. 29 Dec 2010. Archived from the original on 14 April 2016. Retrieved 17 February 2016.
  28. ^ Seetor, Benjamin (13 May 2011). "Just Eight Strangers At His Funeral". Singapore Press Holdings. The New Paper.
  29. ^ "Man at son's cremation despite differences". My Paper. 2 Feb 2015. Archived from the original on 5 February 2015. Retrieved 2 February 2015.
  30. ^ "Murdered woman's parents didn't know she had a boyfriend". The New Paper. 7 April 2016. Retrieved 20 October 2022.
  31. ^ Lum, Selina (8 February 2020). "Circuit Road murder: Man, 51, gets life sentence for strangling nurse". The Straits Times. Retrieved 20 October 2022.
  32. ^ "Woodlands deaths: Neighbours thought family was on holiday". Today. 31 January 2017. Retrieved 21 September 2021.
  33. ^ "Woodlands double murder: Man gets death penalty for killing pregnant wife, 4-year-old daughter". Today. 12 November 2020. Retrieved 21 September 2021.