Gilder was born in Manhattan on May 31, 1932, a fifth-generation New Yorker of Bohemian Jewish descent. His father, Richard Sr., worked as a property manager for a real estate company; his mother, Jane (Moyse), was a housewife.[2] Gilder attended Northfield Mount Hermon School before enrolling in Yale College, graduating in 1954 with a BA in history.[3] He received a Doctor of Humane Letters in 2007 from Yale. He provided $4 million, over half the necessary funding, in honor of his daughter, Virginia Gilder, a two-time Olympian, for the recently completed Gilder Boathouse for Yale rowers. The boathouse carries only the Gilder last name to honor three generations of Yale alumni.[3][4]
Gilder worked together with George Soros in 1974 to revitalize Central Park. Their efforts led to the creation of the Central Park Conservancy six years later,[2] and he served as a trustee of that organization.[6] In 1993, he made the then-largest private donation to a public park when he promised $17 million if the Conservancy and the municipality did the same.[2]
Gilder had four children,[5] all from his first marriage to Britt-Marie Lagerljung.[2][12] One of his daughters, Virginia Gilder (born 1958), also a Yale graduate,[3] was a member of the American women's quadruple sculls team that won the silver medal at the 1984 Summer Olympics.[13] and is a co-owner of the Seattle Storm, a professional women's basketball team in the WNBA.[14] His other children were Peggy, Britt-Louise, and Richard Gilder III.[2]
Gilder's marriage to Britt-Marie, as well as his subsequent marriages to Virginia Chromiak and then Teresa Maria Dempsey, all ended in divorce.[2] In 2005 he married former model and actress Lois Chiles.[15] Her paternal uncle was oil tycoon Eddie Chiles.[16]
Gilder died on May 12, 2020, at his home in Charlottesville, Virginia, at the age of 87.[17][2] News of his death was first announced by his wife, who confirmed that it was due to congestive heart failure.[2]
^ abcBorzilleri, Meri-Jo (March–April 2011). "Taking Seattle by Storm". Yale Alumni Magazine. Archived from the original on July 30, 2017. Retrieved January 1, 2014. Gilder's father, Richard Gilder '54, gave $4 million toward the current crew boathouse, completed in 2000.
^YALE Bulletin & Calendar, Volume 35, Number 30, June 15, 2007