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Nancy Julia Chodorow (born January 20, 1944) is an American sociologist and professor.^[2] She began teaching at Wellesley College in 1973, then moved to the University of California, Santa Cruz, where she taught from 1974 until 1986.^[3] She was a Sociology and Clinical Psychology professor at the University of California, Berkeley until 1986.^[4][5] Subsequently, she taught psychiatry at Harvard Medical School/Cambridge Health Alliance.

Chodorow has written several books on contemporary feminist thought,^[6] including The Reproduction of Mothering: Psychoanalysis and the Sociology of Gender (1978);^[4][7][8] Feminism and Psychoanalytic Theory (1989); Femininities, Masculinities, Sexualities: Freud and Beyond (1994); and The Power of Feelings: Personal Meaning in Psychoanalysis, Gender, and Culture (1999). In 1996, Contemporary Sociology named The Reproduction of Mothering one of the ten most influential books of the past 25 years.^[4][8]

Chodorow was born to a Jewish family on January 20, 1944, in New York City, New York.^[9] Her parents were Marvin Chodorow, a professor of applied physics, and Leah Chodorow (née Turitz), a community activist who helped establish the Stanford Village Nursery School and served as its first parents board president.^[10][11] In 1977, Chodorow married economist Michael Reich, with whom she had two children, Rachel and Gabriel. They separated in 1996.^[12][13]

Chodorow graduated from Radcliffe College in 1966, where she studied under Beatrice Whiting and W.M. Whiting. She was influenced by Beatrice Whiting, an American anthropologist specializing in child development.^[14] Chodorow's undergraduate work focused on personality and cultural anthropology.^[10] She received her Ph.D. in Sociology from Brandeis University in 1975.^[15] Philip Slater was an influence on her studies, directing her focus to the unconscious phenomena of psychoanalysis.^[10] Chodorow later cited Slater's book, Glory of Hera (1968), as influential on her thinking about men's fear of women and its manifestation in culture. Following her Ph.D., Chodorow received clinical training at the University of California, Berkeley, Dept. of Psychology (1984-86) and the San Francisco Psychoanalytic Institute (1985-1993).^[3]

Freudian psychoanalysis is a major influence on Chodorow's work. She critiques Freudian analysis from a feminist perspective to understand the mother-child relationship.^[16] Chodorow draws on the Freudian model of female development to suggest a link between a girl's gender development and her closeness to her mother. She theorizes that girls pursue a privilege already achieved by boys, who are valued by the mother as objects of her Oedipal gratification.^[17] Boys, however, possess both the need and ability to detach from their mothers. Chodorow suggests that females resolve their inner conflict by converting envy of male privilege into heterosexual desire.^[17] Based on Freudian theory, Chodorow argues that the Oedipus complex symbolically separates male children from their mothers, while young girls continue to identify with and remain attached to their mothers.^[6] Chodorow posits that Freud's theory of the Oedipal conflict and revolution depends on the father being present at the right time.^[18] Her analysis hypothesizes that a female's desire for men is a consequence of her strong desire for her mother.^[18]

Chodorow also uses Sigmund Freud's theory to argue that differences between men and women are largely due to capitalism and the absent father.^[19] She acknowledges economic changes occurring around 2003 and their psychological impact on both sexes with regard to shared parenting.^[5] She argues that the development of shared parenting has challenged the traditional mothering role, leaving mothers and children with less time together.^[18]

Chodorow contends that Freudian theory suppresses women. She draws on Freud's concept of how nature becomes culture, creating a "second nature," to argue that gender is formed and organized through both social institutions and transformations in consciousness and psyche.^[17] She uses Freud's idea of intrapsychic structures—the id, ego, and superego—to argue that the internal workings of males and females are structurally different due to socialization, not inherent differences.^[19]

Chodorow's The Reproduction of Mothering delves into four primary concepts: the unique personality traits of women, the pattern of male dominance and its potential for change, the reasons behind most women's identification as heterosexual, and the reasons behind women's innate desire to mother. Chodorow sees mothering as a dual structure, shaped by childhood experience and the social structure of kinship. She posits that becoming a mother is not solely biological or instinctual.^[20][16] She argues that "mothering" is socially constructed and part of female personality because women are mothered by women.^[21] In the book, Chodorow argues that gender differences arise from formations of the Oedipal complex. While both male and female children experience closeness with their mothers, females seek gratification from this connection in a way that males do not.^[21] She contends that women's mothering, a common element of the sexual division of labor, positions them in the domestic sphere while men occupy the public sphere.^[21] One critique of this assertion is that it might suggest women are not psychologically suited for the public sphere.^[21] Chodorow builds on Freud's assertion of bisexuality at birth and the mother as the child's first sexual object. Drawing on Karen Horney and Melanie Klein, she suggests that the child's ego forms in reaction to the mother. Male children achieve independent agency easily, identifying with the father and emulating his interest in the mother/wife. This process is more complex for female children, who identify strongly with the mother and attempt to make the father the new love object, thus hindering their ego formation.^[8]

The mother-infant bond shapes the child's identity and enables recognition of the father as separate, unless the father provides similar primary care.^[22] This separation can lead to ambivalence toward the father.^[22] Consequently, children are more obedient to their father, not because of his authority but because of the nature of the initial father-child relationship.^[8][17]

The influence of The Reproduction of Mothering led to its revisiting in 2021, forty years after its initial publication.^[23] In this work, Chodorow writes, "The mother is the early caregiver and primary source of identification for all children ... A daughter continues to identify with the mother,"^[8] explaining that this strong bond inhibits the daughter's identity formation. While the initial bond with the mother applies to both sexes, boys break away earlier to identify with their fathers, thus perpetuating the mother-daughter identification.^[17]

Chodorow connects the contrasting dyadic and triadic first love experiences to the social construction of gender roles, citing the universal degradation of women in culture, cross-cultural patterns in male behavior, and marital strain in Western society after Second Wave feminism. She argues that in marriage, women prioritize children over sex, which drives men away. Upon reaching sexual maturity, women devote their energy to children.^[8]

Chodorow suggests that the psyches of men and women differ due to dissimilar childhood experiences.^[19] She argues that women's less fixed ego boundaries explain their greater empathy and hypothesizes that if society perceives women primarily as mothers, female liberation will be experienced as traumatic.^[18]

Chodorow argues that masculinity is learned consciously in the absence of the father, while femininity is embedded in the ongoing relationship with the mother.^[18] She states, “Masculinity is defined as much negatively as positively,”^[8][18] arguing that while female identification is a rational process, male identification is defined by rejection.^[18]

In Feminism and Psychoanalytic Theory, Chodorow argues that men's suppression of their need for love leads to an inability to tolerate others expressing that need.^[25] Women, having not suppressed this need, tolerate emotional unresponsiveness in exchange for some love and care.^[26] Men, unable to silence this desire through repression, protect themselves from women while maintaining heterosexual relationships.^[25] Chodorow suggests that a more involved father figure could rectify these emotional ambiguities.^[25]

Chodorow posits that closeness to the mother diminishes women's sex drive toward men, while men's repressed needs result in a stronger sex drive and more romantic love.^[25] She suggests this may be the basis for male aggression toward women.^[25] She also focuses on how society values women for "being" and men for "action," tying this to women's relationship-oriented nature.^[25] She links this to Freudian theory by arguing that men pay a price for detachment from their mothers and repression of their feminine selves.^[25]

In The Power of Feelings, Chodorow addresses the relation between culture and individual identity, the role of unconscious fantasy, and the epistemology of psychoanalytic theories.^[27] She combines theoretical approaches, focusing on psychoanalysis and feminist theory, while acknowledging their shortcomings regarding gender psychology. She argues that gender identity develops through a combination of personal and cultural meanings.^[28]

In The Psychoanalytic Ear and the Sociological Eye, Chodorow explores the relationship between social relationships and individuality, arguing that sociology and psychoanalysis have suffered from not exploring their interconnectedness. She focuses on Erik Erikson and Hans Loewald, reflecting on her own cultural and psychoanalytic journeys.^[29]

• Chodorow, Nancy (2020), Nancy Chodorow and The Reproduction of Mothering Forty Years On. Editor: Petra Bueskens. Palgrave Macmillan ISBN 978-3-030-55590-0.
• The Psychoanalytic Ear and the Sociological Eye: Toward an American Independent Tradition.^[30]
• Chodorow, Nancy (2019), "The Psychoanalytic Ear and the Sociological Eye: Toward an American Independent Tradition," New York: Routledge, ISBN 978-0367134211.
• Chodorow, Nancy (2012), "Individualizing Gender and Sexuality: Theory and Practice," New York: Routledge, ISBN 9780415893589.
• Chodorow, Nancy (1999), "The Power of Feelings: Personal Meaning in Psychoanalysis, Gender, and Culture," New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, ISBN 978-0300089097.
• Chodorow, Nancy (1994), "Femininities, Masculinities, Sexualities: Freud and Beyond," KY: University Press of Kentucky, ISBN 978-0813108285.
• Chodorow, Nancy (1991), "Feminism and Psychoanalytic Theory," New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, ISBN 978-0300051162.
• Chodorow, Nancy, (1978), "The Reproduction of Mothering: Psychoanalysis and the Sociology of Gender" CA: University of California Press, ISBN 9780520038929.

• More information on Chodorow's works
• https://www.studysmarter.co.uk/explanations/social-studies/famous-sociologists/nancy-chodorow/