Friend was born at Halfway Street near Sidcup in Kent in 1856, the fourth son of wealthy merchant Frederick Friend and his wife Fanny (née Tyrell).[1] He grew up at the family home, Woollett Hall at North Cray, and was educated at Cheltenham College and the Royal Military Academy, Woolwich.[2][3] He was a mathematics scholar at Cheltenham and was awarded the Dobson Scholarship and the Cheltonian Society Prize in 1872, his final year at school.[4] Although his Times obituary said that he was "proficient in all games, at cricket being exceptionally good",[5] he did not play for the College XI,[1] despite showing what his Wisden obituary described as "good batting form".[6]
Military career
Friend won a prize for artillery whilst at the Woolwich and was commissioned into the Royal Engineers in 1874 as a Temporary Lieutenant.[2][7] His commission was made permanent in 1876 and he spent time stationed in Ireland and Hong Kong before being appointed as an instructor at the Royal Military College, Sandhurst, in 1883 and promoted to captain in 1885.[2]
Friend was in command in Ireland when the Easter Rising broke out in 1916. In the lead up to the Rising he was in command during the capture of the arms ship Aud and the arrest of Roger Casement on 21 April, but went on leave to England after the arrest, apparently "satisfied that the danger had passed".[9] When the Rising began on 24 April, Friend returned to Dublin and he received the surrender of the rebel leaders. Although The Times wrote that he had "firmly handled" the Rising,[5] his decision to leave Ireland in advance was seen as an error of judgement and he was replaced by Sir John Maxwell,[2] although he was not criticised in the Royal Commission which examined the conduct of British officials leading up to the Rising.[1]
From 1916 until his retirement in 1921 Friend was President of the Claims Commission of the British Armies in France.[2][3] He was awarded the Ordre de Léopold, Legion d'Honneur and Croix de Guerre for his role and in 1919 was made KBE and mentioned in despatches for a fourth time in his career, his organisational skills being praised by Sir Douglas Haig.[2] He was placed on retirement pay in June 1920 after 47 years of military service, although he continued to serve as Chairman of the French Committee of the Disposal Board.[2]
In total Friend played six first-class matches, scoring 189 runs at an average of 17.18 runs per innings.[11] He played twice more for Kent in 1887 as well as appearing for I Zingari against the Gentlemen of England the same year. In 1888 he played for the Gentlemen of England against Oxford University, making his highest first-class score of 72 runs, and his final first-class appearance was for MCC against Kent at Lord's in 1891. He played Army and club cricket for a wide variety of sides, making his highest score of 208 for United Services Portsmouth in 1897, the last year he played for the RE. Whilst serving in the Far East he played for Hong Kong Cricket Club in 1880. He played for South Northumberland and Northumberland between 1887 and 1891 whilst stationed at Newcastle-upon-Tyne and for sides such as Free Foresters and United Services.[1][2][6]
Friend spent time during his retirement in South Africa and Australia. He died in a nursing home at West Kensington in London on 19 November 1944 aged 88.[2]
^Bancroft JB (2021) The Early Years of the FA Cup: How the British Army helped establish the world's first football tournament, pp. 120–122. Barnsley: Pen and Sword. ISBN9781399099943
