Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe serves as a director for the Ellis Campbell Group and Hintlesham Holdings. He is also a trustee of the Elvetham Charitable Trust and the Newcastle Charitable Trust.
He has been married twice. His first wedding took place at Kensington Register Office on 27 May 1977[1] to socialite, débutante and banking heiress Lady Mary-Gaye Curzon (born 1947), daughter of the 6th Earl Howe and former wife of Kevin Esmond Peter Cooper-Key, whom she married in 1971 and divorced in 1976 and by whom she had a daughter, Pandora Cooper-Key (1973–2024), who worked at Vivienne Westwood. Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe and his first wife, who were divorced in 1986, had three children:[citation needed]
Georgiana Moireach Gay Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe (born 1978), artist
Jacobi Richard Penn Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe (born 1983), property developer
In 1987 Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe married Vanessa Mary Teresa Llewellyn Hubbard (born 1958), the former wife of Sir David Llewellyn, 4th Baronet. Anstruther-Gough-Calthorpe and his second wife are the parents of: