James married firstly, Catherine Cary (1609–1626) eldest daughter of Viscount Falkland and the playwright Elizabeth Tanfield Cary author of The Tragedy of Mariam.[4]John Chamberlain reported that King James had arranged the marriage which took place in the King's chamber or presence chamber at Whitehall Palace in May 1622.[5] The king wanted the marriage concluded before Viscount Falkland become Lord Deputy of Ireland. In Scotland, on the king's orders, the lawyer Thomas Hamilton had convened the six lairds of the Home name; Wedderburn, Ayton, Blackadder, Polwarth, Manderston, Hutton Hall, and North Berwick. He told them the details of the earl's marriage, and that King James wished them to be "instruments of peace and love between him and his lady." The lairds hoped that Home's mother would consult with them about the earl's business and consider their advice. Otherwise they would not be content to intervene in the earl's affairs.[6]
In December 1622, the Earl of Home had a serious infection in the mouth, and his wife also had a tooth pulled out.[8] The Life of Lady Falkland relates that Catherine, Countess of Home, had a religious vision in Scotland.[9] Catherine's death in childbirth in 1625 and the vision were said to have caused her mother's conversion to Catholicism.[10][11]
One of Catherine's maids, Bessie Poulter, returned to England to serve Lady Falkland and was said to have been affected by preaching about witchcraft and Catholic priests in Scotland.[12]
An account of expenses mentions his dogs and his horse "Sweepstakes" and money in gold sent to England for his expenses or investment.[14]
James died in London without an heir on 13 February 1633,[15] attended by the court physician Théodore de Mayerne,[16] and Grace died soon afterwards at Apethorpe. The next Earl of Home was Sir James Home of Coldenknowes.
^Heather Wolfe, Elizabeth Cary, Lady Falkland, Life and Letters (RTM, 2001), p. 114.
^Heather Wolfe, Elizabeth Cary, Lady Falkland, Life and Letters (RTM, 2001), p. 137: Richard Simpson, The Lady Falkland, Her Life. From a MS. in the Imperial Archives at Lille (London, 1861), p. 35.