A dowager is a widow or widower who holds a title or property – a "dower" – derived from her or his deceased spouse.[1] As an adjective, dowager usually appears in association with monarchical and aristocratictitles.
In popular usage, the noun dowager may refer to any elderly widow, especially one of wealth and dignity or autocratic manner.
Some dowagers move to a separate residence known as a dower house.
Use
In the United Kingdom
In the United Kingdom the widow of a peer or baronet may continue to use the style she had during her husband's lifetime, e.g. "Countess of Loamshire", provided that his successor, if any, has no wife to bear the plain title. Otherwise she more properly prefixes either her forename or the word Dowager, e.g. "Jane, Countess of Loamshire" or "Dowager Countess of Loamshire". (In any case, she would continue to be called "Lady Loamshire".)[3]
The term queen dowager is used in the United Kingdom and several other countries for the widow of a king; when the dowager is the mother of the current monarch she is more often known as the queen mother.[4]
In the Orders of precedence in the United Kingdom, a dowager peer ranks above her daughter-in-law (the wife of her son, the incumbent peer); this is different to queens dowager, where a daughter-in-law (i.e., the more recent queen) will rank above her mother-in-law.