"Ain't That Lonely Yet" is a song written by Kostas and James House, and recorded by American country music artist Dwight Yoakam. It was released in March 1993 as the lead single from his album This Time. It preceded the release of This Time by two weeks. It peaked at number 2 for the week of June 5, 1993, on the BillboardHot Country Singles & Tracks; in addition, it went on to win a Grammy award for Best Male Country Vocal Performance.
Content
The song is a mid-tempo in which the narrator has just left his lover because of what she has put him through. She tries to win him back with phone calls and notes (left on his door). The narrator denies his former lover, and tries to convince himself that he "ain't that lonely yet," or not lonely enough to return to her.
Critical reception
Bill Janovitz of Allmusic gave the song a positive review. He says the most compelling verse in the song is the second verse, because of the metaphor of the narrator's ex-lover as a spider.[1]