Lucy was more than twenty years her husband's junior, having been born shortly before her mother's death in 1713.[2] They had two sons, Thomas St Lawrence, 1st Earl of Howth, and a younger son William (died 1749), who became a professional soldier; and one daughter Mary (1729-1787), who married Sir Richard Gethin, 4th Baronet, and was the mother of Sir Percy Gethin, 5th Baronet of the Gethin Baronets of Gethinsgrott, County Cork.[citation needed]
Jonathan Swift
His marriage to Lucy led to a friendship between Lord Howth and Jonathan Swift, who greatly admired Lucy, and called her "my blue-eyed nymph".[2] Her stepmother Dorothy (Dolly) Stopford had also been Swift's friend. Swift became a regular visitor to Howth Castle, exchanged numerous letters with Lord Howth, and at Howth's request had his portrait painted by Francis Bindon.[2] Swift's regard for Lady Howth led him to importune his friend Eaton Stannard, the Recorder of Dublin, to use whatever influence he had on behalf of her brother Mr Hamilton Gorges, who was standing for Parliament in 1734. Swift ruefully remarked that "I know of no other lady whose commands I would not have disobeyed on such an occasion", the more so since her brother was a complete stranger to him.[3]
Scandal
Scandal and tragedy visited the St Lawrence family in 1736. While the Howths were in residence at Kilfane, a cousin, Miss Barford and her friend Miss Hawley who were staying with them, were killed in a carriage accident.[2] When news of the tragedy reached Dublin, it led in a rather obscure fashion to a violent quarrel between Lord Howth's brother, Henry St Lawrence, and Lady Howth's brother, Hamilton Gorges (for whom Jonathan Swift had canvassed for a seat in Parliament two years earlier).[4] St Lawrence challenged Gorges to a duel in which Gorges killed him. Gorges was tried for murder but acquitted.[2] The jury, as generally happened in such cases, accepted his plea that he had acted in self-defence.[5]
Character
Elrington Ball describes William as a man of considerable gifts, keen insight and a humorous disposition, but far too fond of his own pleasure. He was a keen sportsman and a heavy drinker. At the same time he took a strong interest in improving agriculture, and as his last will shows, was notably charitable to the poor.[2]
Death
He died on 4 April 1748 and was succeeded in the title by his elder son, Thomas, who was created 1st Earl of Howth in 1767.[1] His widow remarried Nicholas Weldon of Gravelmount House, Navan, County Meath in 1751.[1] Since Weldon was a Roman Catholic it was necessary under the Penal Lawsfor Lucy to obtain a royal pardon for the marriage in order to prevent forfeiture of her property rights, and this was duly granted in December 1751.[6]
References
^ abcdPine, L.G. The New Extinct Peerage London 1972 p.152
^ abcdefgBall, F. Elrington History of Dublin Vol. 5 "Howth and its Owners" University Press Dublin 1917 pp. 135-40
^Elrington Ball says that the immediate cause of the quarrel was a disparaging remark by Gorges about another St Lawrence relative, Mary Rice- History of Dublin p.140.
^In the eyes of the law to kill a man in a duel was murder, but juries in the eighteenth century almost always acquitted, the popular feeling being that a duel was the proper way for gentlemen to settle a quarrel- Fleming, Thomas Duel Basic Books 1999.
^"Pardon of George II to Lucy Lady Dowager Howth in respect of rents imperilled through her marriage to Nicholas Weldon, a papist" 13 December 1751 National Library of Ireland