She was interviewed by CNN's Richard Quest on 23 July 2011 where she phrased the words "If one man can create that much hate, you can only imagine how much love we as a togetherness can create."[3] This phrase was later quoted by prime minister Jens Stoltenberg during the memorial service on Sunday 24 July 2011, attributed to "the AUF girl who was interviewed by CNN", slightly rephrased due to translation back in Norwegian (here in English translation): If one man can show so much hate, think how much love we could show together.[4][5][6]
According to Håheim herself in an interview with the Norwegian newspaper Verdens Gang she attributes the original formulation to a good friend, Helle Gannestad.[7]
Verdens Gang later updated the article The Love Message is Spreading in All Channels on 25 July 2011 with the information that the Love Quote correctly shall be attributed to Helle Gannestad, the good friend of Håheim.[8] The original phrasing in English translation is as follows: When one man could cause so much evil - think about how much love we can create together.[2]
^"Eyewitness: Norwegian massacre 'like a Nazi movie'". Australian Broadcasting Corporation. 23 July 2011. Retrieved 23 July 2011. We heard shooting, lots of shooting, and we were calling our families and we were calling the police. Suddenly somebody said, 'The police is here! We are safe now!' And then we saw a man with a police uniform coming down the hill and he started shooting people. We turned around and we ran for our lives.
^"Address by Prime Minister in Oslo Cathedral". Norwegian government. 24 July 2011. Archived from the original on February 11, 2012. Retrieved 25 July 2011. No one has said it better than the Labour Youth League girl who was interviewed by CNN: If one man can create that much hate, you can only imagine how much love we as a togetherness can create.
^"Kjærlighetsbudskapet sprer seg i alle kanaler". Verdens Gang. 24 July 2011. Retrieved 24 July 2011. Sitatet ble først formulert av en god venn av Håheim. Under intervjuet med CNN velger Håheim å videreformidle det, for å understreke at hat ikke er svaret på hat.