Ralph Waite
Waite at the 40th anniversary of The Waltons on September 29, 2012
Born	(1928-06-22)June 22, 1928 White Plains, New York, U.S.
Died	February 13, 2014(2014-02-13) (aged 85) Palm Desert, California, U.S.
Resting place	White Plains Rural Cemetery
Alma mater	Bucknell University and Yale Divinity School
Occupation(s)	Actor, political activist
Years active	1954–2014
Political party	Democratic
Spouses	Beverly Waite ​ ​ (m. 1951; div. 1966)​ Kerry Shear Waite ​ ​ (m. 1977; div. 1981)​ Linda East ​ (m. 1982)​
Children	3

Ralph Waite (June 22, 1928 – February 13, 2014) was an American actor, best known for his lead role as John Walton Sr. on The Waltons (1972–1981), which he occasionally directed. He later had recurring roles as two other heroic fathers; in NCIS as Jackson Gibbs, the father of Leroy Jethro Gibbs, and in Bones, as Seeley Booth's grandfather. Waite had supporting roles in movies such as Cool Hand Luke (1967), Five Easy Pieces (1970), The Grissom Gang (1971), The Bodyguard (1992), and Cliffhanger (1993).^[1]

Waite, the eldest of five children, was born in White Plains, New York, on June 22, 1928, to Ralph H. Waite, a construction engineer, and Esther (née Mitchell) Waite.^[2] He graduated from White Plains Senior High School in 1946. Too young for World War II, Waite served in the U.S. Marine Corps from 1946 to 1948, then graduated from Bucknell University in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania. He worked briefly as a social worker. Waite earned a master's degree from Yale University's Divinity School and was an ordained Presbyterian minister and religious editor at Harper & Row, New York, before deciding on an acting career.^[3] He was a member of the Peninsula Players summer theater program during the 1963 season.^[4]

In 1963, Waite made his Broadway debut as the Minister in Marathon '33, written and directed by June Havoc.^[5] He next appeared in Blues for Mister Charlie, and worked on- and off-Broadway steadily throughout the 1960s.^[6]

His film work included roles in Cool Hand Luke, Five Easy Pieces, Lawman, Kid Blue, The Grissom Gang, Chato's Land, and The Stone Killer. His later films included The Bodyguard, the part of Frank the helicopter pilot in the 1993 film Cliffhanger, and as the mysterious time traveler in Timequest (2002).^[7] He also voiced Shadow in Homeward Bound II.

Waite scored a personal triumph when he created the role of Will Kidder in the Pulitzer Prize-winning The Young Man from Atlanta, by playwright Horton Foote, in 1995.^[8]

Waite was married three times, two marriages ending in divorce. He had three daughters from his first marriage. His eldest daughter, Sharon Waite, died of leukemia when she was 9 years old in 1964.^[9] Liam Waite, one of Waite's stepsons, is also an actor. After 50 years away from organized religion, Waite returned in 2010 and became an active member of Spirit of the Desert Presbyterian Fellowship in Palm Desert, California.^[3]

Waite ran unsuccessfully for Congress in California as a Democrat on three occasions: In 1990, he challenged veteran GOP incumbent Al McCandless in the Riverside County-based 37th district, losing by 5%. In 1998, Waite ran in the special election for the then-Palm Springs-based 44th district left vacant by the death of incumbent Sonny Bono.^[10] He was defeated in that election by Mary Bono, Sonny's widow, and lost to her again that November.^[11]

On October 21, 1991, Waite introduced former California Governor Jerry Brown prior to the latter's speech announcing his candidacy for the 1992 Democratic presidential nomination.^[12]

On February 13, 2014, Waite died in Palm Desert, California, of natural causes at age 85.^[13] He is buried in White Plains Rural Cemetery in New York. The NCIS episode "Honor Thy Father", the season 11 finale, is dedicated to Waite's memory.

Director

• On the Nickel (1980) (Also writer)

Actor

Director

Actor

TV movies

• Marathon '33 (1963)
• Blues for Mister Charlie (1964)
• Hogan's Goat (play) (1965)
• The Trial of Lee Harvey Oswald (1967)
• Other People's Money (play, before the film) (1991, Trinity Repertory Company, Providence, RI)
• The Young Man from Atlanta (1995)

• Ralph Waite at IMDb
• Ralph Waite at the Internet Broadway Database
• Ralph Waite at the Internet Off-Broadway Database
• Ralph Waite at the University of Wisconsin's Actors Studio audio collection
• Ralph Waite on Biography Channel
• Ralph Waite on Find A Grave