He was admitted to the bar in 1885, but continued to teach, and was an examiner for the board of regents of the University of the State of New York. He was chief examiner from 1889 to 1892.
In 1891, he married Effie Southwick, a sister of Congressman George N. Southwick (1863–1912). They had one child, Margaret Julia (who married Alfred Earnest Waters), one grandson, Alfred Earnest "Tom" Waters II (who married Frances Diana Ayres), and two great grandsons, Steven Joseph Waters (adopted) and Ralph Thomas Waters (natural).
He was professor of rhetoric and public speaking at Colgate University from 1893 to 1913. During that time he also served as registrar of the university from 1892 to 1905, and librarian from 1892 to 1908. In 1903, he was appointed as a member of the New York State Board of Charities.
On April 15, 1915, Thomas and Martin Saxe were appointed to the New York State Tax Commission. Thomas was re-appointed in 1916, and remained in office until 1919.
"Ralph W. Thomas" transcribed from Our County and Its People: A Descriptive and Biographical Record of Madison County, New York, edited by John E. Smith (The Boston History Co., 1890)