Ellen 'Nellie' Millicent Ashburner Sickert (née Cobden, 18 August 1848– 4 September 1914),[2] was a British writer, campaigner and suffragist.
Life
Cobden was born Ellen Millicent Ashburner Cobden in 1848 in Manchester, Lancashire.[3] Her parents were Richard Cobden, radical MP and leader of the Anti-Corn Law League, and his Welsh wife Catherine Anne Williams.[4] She had four sisters and a brother. All the children were all encouraged to develop a strong civic consciousness from a young age.[5][6]
Cobden was formally educated at Miss Jeffreson’s School in Brighton.[7] In 1856, when she was just seven years old, her 15-year old brother Richard Cobden died of scarlet fever whilst studying at a German boarding school.[7]
After the death of her father in 1865,[4] Cobden was granted an annuity of £250 a year from the Cobden Tribute Fund. This had been established by family friends as an investment trust for Cobden's widow and her daughters and had raised over £25,000. Her mother died in April 1877.[7]
Cobden could afford to travel as a young woman and visited Algeria in North Africa during the 1870s.[8]
Cobden married the painter Walter Richard Sickert (1860–1942)[1] in 1885 at the Marylebone Registry Office. She was 11 years his senior.[9] They spent their honeymoon in Dieppe, France.[10] Her husband commissioned his friend and artist James McNeill Whistler to paint two portraits of her around the time of the marriage, titled Arrangement in Violet and Pink: Mrs Walter Sickert and Green and Violet: Portrait of Mrs Walter Sickert.[3] She was also painted by Jacques Emile Blanche.[11]
Cobden financially supported her husbands own art career,[3] until she discovered in 1896 that he had been unfaithful to her for the duration of their marriage.[2] They lived mostly apart during the 1890s, with Cobden spending her time abroad in Venice, Italy, and Fluellen, Switzerland. The couple divorced in February 1900.[3]
She changed her name by deed poll from Ellen Melicent Ashburner Cobden Sickert to Ellen Melicent Cobden in 1913.[3] Cobden died of cancer just a year later, in 1914.[7]
In 1879, she wrote the poem “The Rights of Women".[7]
Under the pseudonym Miles Amber she published "Winstons – A story in three parts" in 1902. The novel was about the tragic experiences in society of two daughters of a Sussex farmer.[2] The novel was influenced by her political views and the views of her wider family.[14] It was dedicated to her sister Jane.
Under her own name she published the semi-autobiographical work "Sylvia Saxon – Episodes in a Life" in 1914. The book centred around a spoilt heiress struggling with marital difficulties and social questions[2] and included a fictional depiction of the Cobden family home of Dunford House, near Heyshott, West Sussex.[15]The Spectator reviewed the book, stating that “the writer's gifts of intuition and of observation are remarkable”.[16]